Nebraska Pets and Handlers (NEB-PAH) is committed to creating a welcoming, safe, and inclusive environment for all members of the human pet play community. The following Code of Conduct applies to all members, attendees, volunteers, and leadership at NEB-PAH events, both online and in person.


🐾 Respect and Consent

  • All participation must be informed and consensual. Consent may be withdrawn at any time.
  • Do not touch anyone or their gear (including pets in headspace) without permission.
  • Respect personal, emotional, and physical boundaries at all times.
  • Use negotiated safewords or signals, and honor them immediately.

🐾 Inclusivity and Conduct

  • Treat all individuals with dignity, kindness, and respect regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, kink identity, race, age (18+ only), body type, ability, or experience level.
  • Discriminatory or harassing behavior (including racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, etc.) will not be tolerated.
  • Bullying, gossiping, and divisive behavior in or outside of NEB-PAH spaces may result in disciplinary action.

🐾 Behavior at Events

  • Follow venue rules and staff instructions.
  • Clean up after yourself and your pets. Leave spaces better than you found them.
  • No alcohol or substance use at dry events. At bar-hosted events, drink responsibly.
  • Any aggressive, dangerous, or non-consensual behavior may result in immediate removal.

🐾 Digital and Community Conduct

  • Treat online spaces (Discord, Telegram, social media) with the same respect as in-person events.
  • Do not share screenshots, conversations, or identities from chats without express permission.
  • Follow server or group-specific rules set by moderators and admins.

🐾 Reporting and Accountability

  • Concerns or violations should be reported to the Board or designated Safety Officers.
  • Reports will be handled confidentially and with care.
  • Violations of this code may result in warnings, suspensions, or permanent removal from NEB-PAH and all affiliated events/chats.

🐾 Final Notes

This Code of Conduct exists to protect our space and ensure it remains vibrant, respectful, and safe. By participating in NEB-PAH, you agree to uphold these expectations and help foster a community we can all be proud of.